Tuesday, March 30

Anniversary Antics (Definitely SFW)

 As I mentioned previously, this past weekend was the gift to each other for our 30 years together. Many of those years ago, we decided that doing gifts was just not practical, or within our budget at the time(s). Other holidays got included into this special category as well. The last few years, things have gone better for us, and we have tried to do something 'special' for our anniversary, even if it is only like going out of town for an overnight (or two). I remember our 25th, as we had gone out and bought silver rings. They weren't matching, but were of a style we each preferred. Both have broken now (pay for what ya get) but we keep them, as our "silver anniversary" tokens.

Tonight we were going to go out for dinner once I finished up work for the day. About 6'ish we hopped into my Rav and motored down the road to Don Rubens. As we pulled up to the place though, there had to been at least 15 people outside waiting, and there was no way I was going to wait an hour plus to get in. WTH? On a Tuesday night? So, we shifted plans and ended up at Olive Garden (no wait). Normally we save places like this for special occasions (bdays, etc) but this counted. I do love their salad dressing! I was a bit non-plussed about my meal though. I did the Trio of Italy (Alfredo Fett.,Lasagna, and Chicken Parmesana) and it just tasted off. Like the whole plate had been sitting ready under a heat lamp for an hour or more. Pasta was a bit tough on the outer edges of the portions, and just wasn't what I usually get for this place. Either way, it was still a good meal and the Wife enjoyed it.

Back home, once my bathroom requirements we completed, the Wife brought out a shipping box, and holds it out to me. I look at her, and raise the eyebrows. "It's something I bought for us." So I tell her to open it (even though she already knows what it is) and this is what was revealed:

The words in grey behind out names, are the words to our wedding song. The music notes themselves are just decoration, and I sort of wish it did something like actually play the first line of music from the song, but oh well. Once the plastic comes off, we will find a place to hang it in our bedroom. Out in the front room we have another order she had done recently, of our names and wedding date in one of them infinity symbols.

All in all, a fine day was had. Now to the years ahead!

PeacE


Parole Board Rejection (Sorta....)

 Do you know the three rings of a life together? The Engagement Ring, the Wedding Ring, and the Suffering.

Not much of that going on around here. Today marks 30 years the Wife and I have been married. Tonight we are going out to dinner just up the road. I had been to this place many years ago, but the Wife has never been there... so almost like going for the first time. Of course, this past weekend we spent in Tucson, as a celebration for our anniversary. I'm still a bit sore in the legs from all the walking at the zoo, but it was worth the time we spent with Doodad.

Work is getting interesting. Friday, the Project Lead asked me if I was an attorney, due to the amount of documents I was reviewing, and information I was providing in our team meeting. I was like - Ummmm, no. Then today, when I first logged into the system, she singled me out and asked me to move to Quality Control. So someone is realizing my potential and abilities. I'm supposed to attend a training for QC work this afternoon. Hey, more money... only a buck or two, but it's money.

Loving my new Rav4. We took the Wife's Highlander down to Tucson. She drove there, and I drove around town, and the trip back. It's nice, but has some bells and whistles I want to figure out how to turn off when I am driving. Like with cruise control on, it has automated lane adjustment on and just distracts me from driving. I haven't actually gotten my Rav onto the freeway for a distance to turn on the cruise, but wonder if it does the same. I'll have to check it out soon. But I enjoy the way it handles, and the seating comfort. Really like that I have a "mine" vehicle again.

Guess that's all I got today....

PeacE

Thursday, March 25

Prepping for the Weekend

 I have been able to work an additional hour each day this week, to help shorten Friday's work time. With an additional hour today, I'll be able to leave at noon on Friday for Tucson, our Weekend Getaway for our anniversary. I still have some qualms about going, or more precisely, about leaving the 15-year old at home, alone.

Needless to say, nothing exciting has happened this week, with me adjusted hours.

PeacE

Tuesday, March 23

Busy Week

 I don't have much time for chit-chat today. The plan is for me to work extra hours this week so that the Wife and I can leave early on Friday, as we head to Tucson for the weekend. It will be nice to leave earlier, as we hope to beat the local rush hour traffic. We have the Middle Son doing check-ins on the Youngest, who is staying home alone. I'm still wary of that whole thing, but he is 15 and should be able to be trusted to be alone.

We will be taking the Wife's new Highlander. The decision was made we would use hers for family and trips, leaving mine as the secondary utility vehicle. Fine with me. Now we just need to clear out the minivan so my brother can come get it. And clean out my old car (the one not running) and push it onto the street so it can be picked up.

I guess I am off to work.

PeacE

Sunday, March 21

The Last Big Buy (Hopefully)

 I spent about three hours yesterday making what I hope to be, the last, most-expensive item purchase: a new vehicle. We had gone out last weekend, and purchased the Wife's new vehicle. This weekend was "may turn", though it was not set in stone. I have been looking at websites of vehicles, pricing vehicles, reading reports on vehicles, and even asking people about their own vehicles - things they liked/disliked about whatever they drove. I had thought I was narrowed down to a Honda Accord... but then settled into the idea of the Accord, or a Toyota Rav4.

Last weekend I had requested some info on the Rav4 from a dealership near our home, and they had called whilst we were across town, purchasing the Wife's vehicle (at another Toyota Dealership) and I tentatively had set up an appointment for yesterday. Mainly, I believed, to answer any outstanding questions about the vehicle. However, it turned out to be a 'What color do you have' as I by week's end I had pretty much made up my mind for the Rav. We walked in, asked for the salesman I was to meet (who couldn't be found/reached by phone) and after a few minutes, was assigned to someone else. I made his day SO EASY!!! This is what I want, the color, no financing. Within 10 minutes I was in a nice, dark grey Rav4, driving up the road, and liked it. I got suckered right there. I knew there was a good chance that I would get suckered at some point of the deal, and they got me there. I was looking for a basic Rav4 LE (non-hybrid) FWD... and ended up test driving an AWD (with multi-road type driving selections) which basically raised my price up a bit more. When would I use that? Wait - this is Arizona.... desert. Rainy season. Mud. Snow up North in the winter. Eco and Sport drive modes as well. All the other goodies I really wanted as well (bluetooth for phone/music... the rest of the stuff is meh). 

Within a couple minutes of talking once the price was revealed, we signaled our salesman over, and said "Let's do it." The remaining hour plus of our visit was waiting and completing the final 'financing/signing of docs' - or better called, waiting to do that. A short 5-minute basic tutorial on how to set up my phone via bluetooth (which didn't work out so hot, as it didn't want to cooperate) The Wife and I went to a late lunch at Fast Eddie's. I wanted to go "show off" the new vehicle, but realized I didn't have anyone I really wanted to do that with. My close friends knew there was a good chance I was going to get a car this weekend. The family that needed to know, already knew the same. Anyone else didn't matter. I sat in the parking lot after lunch, trying to figure out the phone issue and looking through the manual. No luck. Drove home, sat outside the house and tried a couple other ideas. No luck. Had to run an errand (yup, truly it was not an excuse just to drive it again) and finally figured out the phone issue, and got it fixed. It hit at least 91 degrees yesterday, and I learned, that even in Park, the car gets very chilled with the A/C - and it wasn't even on max!

So we both have new vehicles (both are 2021s), and the idea is to hopefully not buy another vehicle  (in regards to ourselves) for 10-15 years. Which means, it could be my last big purchase. Fifteen years will put me in my mid-60s, and if I am still alive, and driving, I think the decision would be made towards a used vehicle. Why buy another new one at that Point? The "Never had a new car until now" phase of our lives is now over.... in a few days when the newness wears off.

It is Sunday, and early. Woke just before 4am, and not able to sleep. Not sure what is on the agenda today. I think I may go up to the pub for a short bit this afternoon, and maybe show a couple acquaintances the new ride. Or maybe just drive around a bit. Monday I will get the insurance set up, and then it's just waiting on the new plates.

Thursday I found out that we were a bit behind schedule on our work project. They had expected the first phase to be completed that day, but by my estimation, the first phase won't complete actually until Monday. So about 2-1/2 days behind. My guess is that this means this project will last up to 4 weeks, versus the 3 they stated, and through in the late start .... At least it is work. I need to brag a bit. The Project Lead had mentioned how each of us needed to be reviewing XX amount of documentation per hour, and that anyone who was below that, she had spoken with privately to let them know they needed to step-up. I was like, huh? I mean, I am reviewing 4 times the regular amount per hour - how could anyone else be that low/slow? Only able to read pictures? I admit, I am a speed reader... and this particular project, the information we are reviewing is "short" documentation - documents with only 1 page, and little to review, versus 150 page documents, spreadsheets, etc. So yeah ... I'm doing at least 4 times (at my 'just doing the job' pace - I could easily move it up) of the documents than most of my co-workers. AND Quality Control has not said anything to me of "missed" information or any other mistakes. Damn, I'm good.

And that, is how we come to today's music video. When one is pretty full of themself, like I feel with the above, this one nails it on the head, right RM? Remember this one?


Geez... just spent an hour and half floating through YouTube while getting this one...

PeacE

Thursday, March 18

Totally Boring Thursday

 I have no idea what happened Tuesday night. Or rather, I do know, but not how I managed to "tweak" my back, but it happened. Wednesday was a fun day trying to sit in the office chair and work for eight hors when my back is hurting. I was going to try the TENS unit we had gotten for Christmas, but having not used it at all yet, it needed to charge for 10 hours first. Go figure. So it was acetaminophen all day. I never did hook up the TENS unit. This morning, it feels better, but not 100% - I think doing some of the PT exercises I had to do when I injured the back originally, helped last night. Stretching and alignment.

Thursday is upon us and I have no major plans. Work, of course. Maybe some WoW later on afterwards.

Okay. I got nothing for you today.

PeacE

Tuesday, March 16

Twiddle, Twiddle, Twiddle

 I'm twiddlin' me thumbs this morning. I woke about an hour before the alarm was to go off - no reason as to why. But realized laying there, that sleep was not coming back for any length of time. So I got up. I got at least 6- 7 hours of sleep. Though, at midnight we were awakened by a knocking noise coming from the front door. However, once there, no one appeared, and we couldn't figure out more than the one short set of knocks we heard. I might have decided it was the cats possibly knocking something over... except for the 4-5 raps we heard. Youngest said he heard something, though he thought it was a motorcycle going by. I dunno.

I jumped on to Warcraft this morning, thinking I would kill a little time getting some "daily" quest things done. Forgot Tuesday is reset day, so the system goes down at a certain time (7am PDT) and is planning on being down for a few hours today. Most resets are about 5 minutes long, but I guess there are software updates/fixes they are putting into place probably, and explains the longer downtime. Wither way, it was only wasted about an hour this morning. With AZ not changing times, I don't get to adjust my start time for work... and still have about an hour and half before I can start. I wonder if I ask our Team Lead if I can change just ne hour earlier, since everyone else can....

Tomorrow is March 17th, a day traditionally called St Patrick's Day, where many in America wear green, and claim they are of Irish descent. Then go out and be assholes by drinking (and lots of times driving). I am not wearing green. Most years I don't. But I am of Irish descent. And I do like to go out drinking, and usually do, but leave early to stay away from the amateurs. I plan on going out for a little bit tomorrow, though will have the Wife drop me off, and take a Lyft home, to avoid any possible driving mishaps.

Guess that is all I got....

PeacE

Monday, March 15

One Down, and One to Go

 The Wife is happy. Me, I'm kinda feeling 'meh'. Saturday we ended up getting the Wife a vehicle she liked. A 2021 Toyota Highlander. Despite it taking nearly four hours to conclude the deal and drive away, it was a decent experience. This is the first NEW car we have ever owned - all the previously owned/bought vehicles were used. This morning I sent off the VIN info to my Insurance guy ... Already feeling negative about how much the insurance premium is going to go up since we are adding comp/collision for the Highlander. And that will give me an idea how much more it will jump again once I finally get my newer vehicle as well. Sigh. Que sera sera....

Other than the vehicle, nothing really exciting happened. We did swing by RM & PT's place Saturday with the new vehicle to "show it off" and also see PT's new ride. Still have strong feelings about he shouldn't be driving, but there isn't anything I can do about it. Hopefully it won't take an accident for PT to realize this. I even try to put myself in his shoes - as if it were I that was older and my family came to me about the situation. It's hard to say I would not do the same thing.....just can't figure it out until I get there. Meanwhile, he is there, and blah blah blah.

Looks like a regular work week for me. Of course AZ doesn't change our clocks like the rest of the country does. Well, a small portion of AZ does... up on the Reservation in NE AZ. I think they follow NM on the time change. So no having to "get up earlier" or anything. Kind of wish the job hours would go to an hour earlier start time. I like getting the work day started early, and finish up early.

Youngest is on Spring Break this week. Still have a couple weeks before the Wife and I go to Tucson. Just not much of anything else happening.

PeacE

Saturday, March 13

Nothing Changes

 It is nice to be back to work on a project. This newest one finally started around midday on Thursday, and is expected to last about three weeks. This project is a little different than previous ones I have worked, so I am getting to "learn" a different aspect of the job. I just feel good being able to apply time to a job, versus sitting around waiting for something to happen.

RM has been writing about PT (my stepdad) the past couple days on her blog. In short, his current car is supposedly in "dire" need of repairs that just aren't cost productive for the age of the car. So "they" are looking for a newer vehicle for him. Several months ago, I had breakfast with PT, and we talked about him "hanging up the keys". The response was one I was not happy with, and in honesty, was not surprised to hear it from him - "I will pray on it". Which means it went nowhere. I have refused to ride with him for several years - back when we were able to meet for breakfast every now and then. His driving had (to me) became too erratic, and I did not feel comfortable as a passenger. He has even admitted to me, about falling asleep at a red light while driving, though it was only a "couple seconds". RM is just kind of "rolling with the flow" about the whole car thing. I know you should pick your battles carefully, but this one just irritates me to no end. Sorry, Mom... but that is just how I feel.

And speaking of getting newer vehicles, we are still looking. I have settled on getting a Toyota Rav4 LE X and now my only problem is finding on in town that is in a color I want - no black, white or "bright" colors for me. I would prefer silver, grey or charcoal, but I haven't found any yet. I may have to have one ordered shipped in to get my color choice. The Wife hasn't really made up her mind about it all yet. She wants to look at some other vehicles in person. My time frame was to have one before our trip to Tucson this month, so I am hoping to find a color I can live with, as it looks like it will be my new vehicle that gets here first.

The Youngest has started Spring Break. After this next week, it has been decided the school will open the doors and students will attend physical classes again. THANK YOU LORD! He has struggled with at least two classes, with grades, due to not doing homework, or staying awake during class time online. In theory, he has actually gotten the grades above the F mark, but I don't have finally info on that. But being in class will make him concentrate on homework better - having in class time to work on it, plus having to hand in a physical piece of homework versus email. The Son has admitted it would help him be more responsible about it all.  I can agree with that. The Wife and I as parents, have tried everything we can to get him to be responsible about his school work this whole time it has been online. Physically, I can't make him do things that would help him. But even checking on him every hour (to make he is not sleeping again) and taking away other electronics (tablet, etc) nothing seemed to work. Being back in the classroom would be good.

Nothing much else going on. I'm headed up to the pub midday to help out a computer illiterate friend to pay his taxes online. Long story. But we will have a couple drinks and then I'll come back home.

Guess that's about it.

PeacE

Wednesday, March 10

A Dream Post

 I had a dream earlier this evening. It had somewhat of a story (in a dream-like way) that I am trying to record as much as I can remember....

It starts as I am younger man - say around high school graduation age. I wake in an upstairs bedroom, and start going down the hall, down the stairs - the walls are blank (no pictures). I reach the ground floor, and happen to look to the right and see my Uncle Dennis in that room, and he's looking to be modern age today... almost 70 years. My sister walks through my line of sight, looking like the pre-teen version of herself, though taller, as an adult. My head swivels back to the left and the "front door", as I open it and leave. I step down two steps from the front porch and glance up at a street sign. It shows me to be on Clunk Street. It intersects with another street, and yet a third one as well.

"I told you we live at the corner of Clunk and Clank," my sister's voice carries out from inside the house. The third street that intersects, is Military Road. There's an early Honda Goldwing model motorcycle sitting at the curb. I got on it, and start it up, then go through the gear shifts in my head. Slowly I take off, up to the corner, turn right on Military Road, and start speeding up. This is where it gets weird.

There is a flashback of when I was younger - say 10-ish. Dad is there (aged appropriate to my age at the time) and he is teaching me the shift positions on a cycle. First all the way down. One up is Neutral, Two is second, three is third.

I'm back at the two story house. I'm home from work, though what job I couldn't say. I'm about 18 again. I walk in what feels like the "front door" though it is different than the earlier house, though I know in my head it is the same on at the corners of Clunk and Clack and Military Streets. It's late summer, into the early evening, and I turn on a window unit air conditioner. A voice hollers out, "Better get them winders open so it will be cooling off better." It came from a couch, and reminded me of a friend named Tim M, though I have not seen him for several years in real life. I open several windows, and some doors, at least ones that have screen doors with them. For some reason, there are several doors and windows here, looking literally into a yard-space that is of nothing but old, abandoned parking lot pavement, complete with tufts of grass growing in the cracks, and miscellaneous debris fluttering about. The whole yard, all the way over to Military street, is this way.

I turn to the television set (a floor model, like from the 70's - but at least it is in color) and the cable box on top. There is a TV guide type magazine there, with a '70's tie-dye art print with a show title and time of showing on the front. A show called "Rural Kirklin and Area" and it was maybe 20 minutes into the program already. I quickly change the channel over, thinking to see our old home there (my early years were lived there, prior to moving to Frankfort). 

The show starts, showing me outside the current house, trying to pick up several large bags of "smashed-down" aluminum cans, climb onto a bicycle, and ride. This was something I had done several years growing up. I finally get going, and make a right on Military Street, and the camera angle stays behind me as I cruise up to Mash Road and turn again, heading to the recycle place. The camera turns back and continues on Military Street, as it leads out of town. The view speed picks up, and it like just showing the road (not much traffic shows, except heading into town) kind of like showing how the road runs through some farm country. It pulls up to a 'T' intersection in a town called ... something - I can't remember, but like Maisy Falls. A turn to the left, and it curves into Michigan Town, up to the single traffic lighted intersection of 421. I think to myself, "I must have missed the Kirklin route into Frankfort in the first part of the show I missed."

There is another dream shift at this point, and I am in large open floor area of a building. It's an asylum. I know it is, and I am a patient here, though I don't know why. It's a pretty dark and dingy looking place, with areas of recessed lightbulb lit areas that don't brighten much of anything. No is restrained in any way, and no "patient outfits" are on anyone. I kind of roam around, and pass random people. Each one seems to say something from my past, about them, but I don't recognize any of them, but feel that tug of forgotten remembrance of them. I stop, facing a regular wooden door. At my side I feel a female nurse standing, looking at me.

"You can go outside if you want, but you have to tell me what you did first," the nurse says. I look at her face. I don't know her, but know what she means.

"I know what to do. They're going to be free," I say in a low voice. Behind me, I feel the slow gathering of many of the 'patients' I had walked around earlier. 

"Keys! Use the Keys!" yells someone. I look down at my hand. There is weirdly-shaped object in my hand, about key size, and I use it on the door, which opens. Suddenly there is a rush of people through the door, and all of them are saying things like "Open all the doors!" or "Use all the keys" as they run willy-nilly through the old, paved lot. Many head to a fence that now is edged around the lot, made of door after door after door, and making unlocking gestures at the door, then flinging them open.

Another shift of dream, and I am sitting on that couch, back in the two story, next to someone. I'm looking at the television screen, but not quite sure what I am seeing. "Looks like a video game I played as a kid," I say to the nothingness.

Then I woke up. I laid there in bed thinking, what in the heck was that about (the dream). I'm groggy, but felt somewhat good about pieces of it as I remembered the dream. After awhile I checked the time: 2:17am. Not a chance of going back to sleep. So hear I am sitting here, recollecting a dream and wondering what I ate/saw/did/remembered to bring on this kind of weirdness. I know Monday would have been my Dad's 73rd birthday were he still alive, so I am sure the parts about growing up in Frankfort and all is related to the - Uncle Dennis, the motorcycle. Even the television show. not sure about the rest of it.

In Frankfort, IN, there is no Military Street. I looked up on Google Maps, though I know there isn't a street named Clank or Clunk either. I was remembering Washington Ave, which runs in a NE/SW angle heading out from the center of Frankfort, where it crosses Maish Road, before leaving town, then becomes Michigantown Road, which truly leads to Michigantown on 421. I'm thinking Clank Street referenced Clay Street, which does intersect Washington, which dead-ends at Sycamore, forming maybe the triangle of the land the house supposedly sat, though probably much larger in actual size.

What a weird night/morning. 

I was supposed to start the new project yesterday, but received notice they were pushing it back another day, to today. Then another notice it was "on hold until further notice". So I will be logging in at the appointed time today and see what the heck is going on....

PeacE

Monday, March 8

Back To Work ... Finally!

 I got the email yesterday mid-afternoon. Finally, the Company has a project for me to get back to work. It actually doesn't start until Tuesday, but it is supposed to last three weeks. So today is another day off.

Today is also my Dad's birthday. Though Dad passed away in 1985, this day has always given me emotional issues. Some years are worse than others. I guess much of it depends on where I feel, emotionally, and other factors going on in Life. This year, the day hasn't started out bad. I think being in a good mind-set, and comfortable family-wise and financially, the stress of regular Life isn't bad, and that probably is a figure of the equation.

I don't have a Dad memory to share today. I think sometimes in the past I have shared one, but the ones that I have had this morning, so far, I think will just keep to myself. Most have been smaller bits and pieces, and not much of a story. Like scenes from motorcycle trips we used to take. Or Gun Shoots we would do on the weekends. Saturday afternoons spent watching B&W war movies, or westerns, on TV.  My heart aches that he never had a chance to meet my Wife, or his grandchildren/great-grandchild. Though, truthfully they might not be here if it weren't for his passing, as I would probably never moved across the country had he lived. Thoughts I have no need to dwell on....

I'll spend part of today going around on the internet, checking what kid of things there are to do in Tucson. I should probably get our hotel booked for the couple nights later this month. What will truly happen is some Warcraft this morning, then go to the bar this afternoon.

PeacE

Sunday, March 7

Staying Awake For All the Wrong Reasons

 It is a little past 3am and I am awake still. I'm not sure if it is because I slept in later than usual today, or what. I'm about ready to head back to bed for attempt number two.

The Wife and I had a nice late lunch. RM & PT picked up the Youngest and took him for games, etc. this afternoon - some time with him to celebrate his birthday last week. I thought we might get out and look at some cars, but after eating, the Reading Room call came in, so we had to head home. Then we just didn't feel like going back out.

The Wife and I did plan that we are going to spend a weekend in Tucson though for our anniversary, and take Doodad out for the day with us...once I find us something to do. I told the Wife that the main requirement is that we have a new vehicle prior to going. At this point I don't care if it is her's or mine, but one needs to be gotten. I know if it is not hers, the length of time it will take for her to get one will be extended worse than the fictional extended car warranty that they save I have and need to renew.

Okay, I'm out to try attempt two.

PeacE

Friday, March 5

Idle Time Is NOT Good

 Another week has gone by. I am, again, waiting on yet another project to get started. I sent off an email to the Company today, just to remind them that I am "available" for any project. Hopefully by Sunday I will have an email for one starting Monday. I don't know.

Car shopping is a pain. We haven't actually made it out to any place to physically see/drive anything as of yet. Tomorrow, RM is coming by to pick up the Youngest to celebrate his bday, and the Wife will have a chance to look at her vehicle. Maybe even drive it around the block if she is interested. I also talked to the SIL this week about his vehicle - as far as his opinion of it - pros/cons. We may go as far as a going to look at a couple others if the Wife doesn't like either one of these.

Our 30th is coming up faster than I want it to. Past years we haven't really done presents for each other - easier to concentrate the money on things the family needed. We are talking about getting our of town for a weekend, though will have to schedule some weird set-up to have the animals looked after, and the Youngest. We might be able to do to it with both other boys in town. The Wife mentioned Tucson for the weekend, and "stealing" the Doodad and doing something. I dunno. Sounds good, but I just don't have the energy to keep up with the little one. I truly am getting too old. Doodad's bday is coming up next month, and I still need to find a "Papaw gift" for her.

Guess I am off to play some games....

PeacE

Wednesday, March 3

Me? Late For Dinner? Never!

 ... and that didn't happen last night, either. I'm sure many of us have heard the 'Call me anything, except late to dinner' quip/line before, usually from someone that may be a 'little' heavy in the weight. Or, from some people like me, that are quite a bit beyond 'little' in that area. I know I have used that phrase a lot. Or the "See-Food Diet" that I am on. Or how great my attention is, as I don't miss anything, especially meals. I'm a Social Drinker - I see you drinking, so shall I! Oh, I am sure there are many others that come to mind for you, but those were just the easy ones off the top of my head.

No, this isn't a post about my weight, or the weight of anyone else. Not about the 'weight of the world' on one's shoulders. I just got to rambling on about the subject.

The start was supposed to be about what a nice time we had at the Youngest Son's birthday dinner last night. We were able to make arrangements so that at least his two older brothers could be there. Youngest had requested Chili's and it was nice that there was one closer to their apartment. Good thing, too, as the Oldest had a work schedule change and was working nights for a few days. It may not have lasted as long as some of our dinner out, but it was a good time. I miss having the family all together at times.

It's just after 4am here this morning. Again I am up early. Slept decently, and only blame waking up on my bladder. It wasn't an "urgent" call, and so I laid there for twenty minutes before I figured I wasn't going to be able to fall back asleep if I got up for the bathroom. So here I am. 

Still waiting to hear from the Company for the next project.

The Wife and I are having our 30th Wedding Anniversary later this month. Last year we had a serious discussion about going to Hawaii for a week, if not on the date, somewhere near it. I had even begun looking into the travel plans (hotels, car, planes) but things just never got off the ground enough. Travel restrictions kept coming in that made things more difficult. Issues with the state of AZ and the DMV regarding "special" licenses for plane travel versus regular living. Not knowing how the world was going to end. All that made planning said trip exceedingly less of an issue. A year later, who would have known that the Wife would be out of work, and we would be down to one vehicle? That schools would not be attended, and only at-home learning was in session. The Wife and I still have not gotten the "special" driver's license type in AZ you need to be able to fly. The only obvious difference between it and the current one? You have to spend more money to get the special one, and not much else as far as I can tell. It is like they want to re-certify your license, as they require birth cert and all that all over again. Wasn't the proof I have one good enough to show I provided all that before? Either way, not sure what I can come up with in less than three weeks for our anniversary. I'll have to put some thought into it.

Still looking virtually at cars right now. The Wife wants to find something that something that is easy to get in/out of, without having to squat to get in, or climb steps to get in. The minivan is about the right height she is looking for, and she asked on social media for suggestions. Many of those we looked up pics on, and I knocked a few out of the equation. We have a handful we need to get out and physically look and test drive. I want to do it this weekend, but don't know what is on schedule or not. Will see how that goes. I know the car RM has is one on our list, so maybe I can make arrangement to go there this weekend and visit (though really to take her out for a bit and see how the Wife like it or not). I know RM would love the idea, as long as she doesn't have other plans. I'm sire I will hear later today one way or the other.... right?

Well, I am really starting to ramble on, so I guess I will shut this down for today.

PeacE

Monday, March 1

Ready! Set! And.... Go Wait a Damn Minute

 It's is Monday evening, and I sit here, out of work again. Current project ended about 1pm today, and, in typical fashion with the Company, I have not heard of being shifted into another one just as of yet. It usually seems to take them about two days to do the change, and have things set up, and Project/Team Leads having a list of who is supposed to be on that job. It's a bit frustrating, when one is doing projects that only last a week or so, then end. Be nice to get on one that runs a couple months - then I could use the break of a few days - not this every 5 days wait 5 days crap. Sigh, but I still love my job - and I have one.

Tomorrow night we are going out for the Youngest's bday dinner. His two older brothers will be able to attend. I'll be ready to get out of the house by then... being home all day doing nothing.

I'm 35 books into my goal of 150 for the year. The website says I am 11 ahead of schedule. I may have to raise that number back up, though I lowered because now I am working means less time to read. I dunno.

Morning Edit: Another early rise day, though I didn't set my alarms. I think I learned not to have Dill-flavored chips shortly before going to bed. The dreams I had last night we WEIRD! I had at least 3-4 of them - all different except for being totally weird. Which meant I didn't sleep as well as I had been lately. I hope it is not leading to nights of not sleeping...

PeacE